Today I was truly saddened by the news that Del Martin passed away. For those of you who don’t know the name, Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon were the first lesbian couple to be married in California after having been together for 55 years. No, I didn’t make a typo… that’s fifty five years! What [...]

One of the most beneficial things you can do as someone who is coming out as a law enforcement, fire, or EMS professional is to get connected with other members of our profession who are already out and established. There are dozens of excellent and well established organizations located throughout the country. Of course, the [...]

With less than 100 days until election day in November, it’s more important than ever to learn about “why marriage matters.” I just finished Evan Wolfson’s book and I have to say it is just excellent. While this is certainly an emotionally charged issue, this book contains facts about marriage that make it so clear. [...]

If you read my book, you know all about Randi Driscoll. She is an incredible vocalist and wonderful human being who I am so proud to call my friend. This weekend, Tony and I will be traveling to southern California to celebrate her recent marriage to Andrew. I had the chance to meet Andrew last [...]

This podcast includes a new book review, comment about PG&E’s support of same-sex marriage, and the second part in a series of discussions about how to come out. Author Greg Miraglia gives thought and advice how to come out in the law enforcement work place. He discusses why it is even necessary and important to [...]